Category: Personal Growth & Reflection


  • When I was little, adulthood looked like a dream. I imagined grown-ups were always confident, calm, and knew exactly what to do in every situation. They got to eat whatever they wanted, go wherever they pleased, and didn’t have anyone telling them “no.” In my eyes, adults had made it. Life looked simple, exciting, and…

  • I’ve always loved talking to people and hearing their stories. These days, between work, family, and limited weekend hours, I don’t have the chance to meet new people like I used to. But my curiosity hasn’t gone anywhere. So if you have a little free time, I’d love for you to share your story in…

  • I recently saw an article criticizing Lisa from BLACKPINK, saying she was “talentless” and didn’t deserve to be paid $40,000 for one movie episode. To be honest, I’m not a hardcore fan. I like some of BLACKPINK’s songs, but I wouldn’t call myself a Blink. Still, reading that headline made me upset. Whether or not…

  • Everywhere we look, there is a hierarchy. In schools, there are gifted tracks and remedial classes. In universities, there are rankings, some Ivy, some safety. Cities have wealthy neighborhoods and overlooked districts. Even hospitals have hierarchies, from prestigious research centers to underfunded community clinics. But why? Why do humans seem to organize everything, from people…

  • We often label people as “bad” based on their actions, choices, or how they hurt others. But I find myself wondering: Were they always this way? Or did they become who they are because no one helped them when they needed it most? I’ve met people who others wrote off as selfish, rude, or even cruel.…

  • When I was 16, I made a decision that would shape the rest of my life. I left Vietnam and moved to the United States, not because I had to, but because I wanted to. I wanted to experience the world, to challenge myself, to see what I was made of outside the familiar rhythms of home.…

  • I do not like labels.They feel too small to hold something as vast and complicated as a human being. At first glance, labels might seem harmless. Humans created them to make sense of the world. Labels help us organize, categorize, and simplify what we see. In theory, they make things easier. But over time, these…

  • I hadn’t thought much about my age until I noticed a few fine lines forming around my eyes—hello, little wrinkles! Thirty years under the sun… it’s not a lifetime, but it’s not nothing either. Maybe I’ll start by sharing a bit about where I come from. I was born and raised in Hanoi, the charming…

  • Growing up, I was obsessed with being “perfect.” That word lit up my world. When my parents praised my grades and called them perfect, I felt proud. When teachers complimented my homework using the same word, I felt accomplished. When friends admired my outfits and called them perfect, I felt seen. I worked hard to…

  • Last night, just as I was about to fall asleep, the heat became unbearable. Half-asleep, I reached for a nearby piece of paper to fan myself. The room was silent and dark, and the only sound was the soft flutter of paper cutting through the air. That simple sound brought me back, all the way…